I love to give head
I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I LOVE TO GIVE HEAD.
I wasn't always this way. The first few times I did it, I didn't care for it one bit. I didn't know what I was doing, didn't care about the guys I was doing it with, it made me gag, and above all - cum tasted awful (if it didn't land in my hair, like the first time I did it). I decided quickly that I didn't like it, and was never going to do it again, simple as that. Oh how naive I was at 17!!
Then I got with a guy that turned the whole thing around for me. We'd been dating for awhile, and the first few times he asked me to give him head, I squirmed my way out of it without really giving a reason. When squirming out of it stopped working (damn, guys are persistent!) I finally told him it was because I didn't know how. (That's me, ever the diplomat...what was I going to say? "I don't wanna! Cum is nasty and penis makes me gag!" I don't think so.) Being the gentle lover that he was at the time, he ever so sensitively explained to me how and what to do. I remember it like it was yesterday. "Just pretend it's a sucker. A really, really tasty sucker. One that you want to last for a long time. And do what you'd do with that sucker. You'd lick it up and down some, and probably put it in your mouth and suck on it gently." He went on to say "Don't worry if you're doing it right or wrong. Just enjoy it. The more you enjoy what you're doing, the more I'll enjoy what you're doing. Take your time." Well hell, you can't really get better or more encouraging instructions than that! I did exactly what he told me to. I was nervous. I took my time. Somehow, I'd gone from refusing to do it to wanting to impress him; wanting him to really like it. (I'd like to say I was a true champ and swallowed, but I'd be lying.)
Afterwards, he gave me more praise than I'd ever heard in my life over a single sexual act. I mean seriously, he was gushing. (Pun intended.) And that's the key to the whole thing - he was so sincere in his flattery that I thought I was the best blow-job-giver this side of the Mason-Dixon line. (Incidentally, to this day I'm not positive if I was really good or not. All I know is that he TOLD me I was good, and that was the most important part.) His sincerity over how much he LOVED it made me want to do it again. (You know, just to see if it was a fluke or if maybe I should go into porn or something.) Turns out, the more praise I got, the more I wanted to do it; wanted to improve upon my technique and style. And the harder I tried, the more he liked it...and it basically snowballed from there.
[Side note from the Slut in me...] Back in the day (we're talking like 10 years ago), I rarely gave up the opportunity to give a guy head. Didn't matter how well I knew him, didn't matter whether or not I liked him, didn't matter whether or not I was going to get anything in return. I had a skill, dammit, and I wanted to show it off at every possible opportunity.
Giving head became a mixture of liking the praise I got and truly enjoying it for my own pleasure. More than a couple times, I've actually had orgasms JUST FROM SUCKING DICK. Not touching myself, not grinding on anything, not being touched...but solely from having a rock hard dick in my mouth and knowing that I'm getting a guy off. That has GOT to be one of the biggest turn-ons in the world for me - getting someone off. (And that's definitely not limited to men.)
When I was dating women, there was a stretch of a few years that I went without dick. What I find most ironic about that time period is that I didn't really miss intercourse so much...but I craved sucking cock like a fat kid craves cake. It surprises me to this day that I remained faithful during that time.
I love giving head to this day. I'm thankful to have a man that likes head. I've heard of some who don't, and I don't even know what to think about them, except to be grateful I haven't dated any.
I love how a dick feels in my mouth. I love to start with it completely flaccid, and work it up to that rock hard, practically bursting out of it's own skin status. I love the tiny noises a man makes - the sighs, the moans...pure music to my ears. And I love to swallow. It's not that I love the taste of cum all that much, (though as I'm saying that, I have an exception to the rule - Vin's cum is the sweetest I've ever tasted, and that's no fucking lie) but I like to finish what I've started. I can't think of a better way to finish a blow job than to have a guy's cum sliding down my throat. Like I always say, if you're gonna do something, do it right.
And remember...the more you like it, the more HE will.
Kisses.
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I wasn't always this way. The first few times I did it, I didn't care for it one bit. I didn't know what I was doing, didn't care about the guys I was doing it with, it made me gag, and above all - cum tasted awful (if it didn't land in my hair, like the first time I did it). I decided quickly that I didn't like it, and was never going to do it again, simple as that. Oh how naive I was at 17!!
Then I got with a guy that turned the whole thing around for me. We'd been dating for awhile, and the first few times he asked me to give him head, I squirmed my way out of it without really giving a reason. When squirming out of it stopped working (damn, guys are persistent!) I finally told him it was because I didn't know how. (That's me, ever the diplomat...what was I going to say? "I don't wanna! Cum is nasty and penis makes me gag!" I don't think so.) Being the gentle lover that he was at the time, he ever so sensitively explained to me how and what to do. I remember it like it was yesterday. "Just pretend it's a sucker. A really, really tasty sucker. One that you want to last for a long time. And do what you'd do with that sucker. You'd lick it up and down some, and probably put it in your mouth and suck on it gently." He went on to say "Don't worry if you're doing it right or wrong. Just enjoy it. The more you enjoy what you're doing, the more I'll enjoy what you're doing. Take your time." Well hell, you can't really get better or more encouraging instructions than that! I did exactly what he told me to. I was nervous. I took my time. Somehow, I'd gone from refusing to do it to wanting to impress him; wanting him to really like it. (I'd like to say I was a true champ and swallowed, but I'd be lying.)
Afterwards, he gave me more praise than I'd ever heard in my life over a single sexual act. I mean seriously, he was gushing. (Pun intended.) And that's the key to the whole thing - he was so sincere in his flattery that I thought I was the best blow-job-giver this side of the Mason-Dixon line. (Incidentally, to this day I'm not positive if I was really good or not. All I know is that he TOLD me I was good, and that was the most important part.) His sincerity over how much he LOVED it made me want to do it again. (You know, just to see if it was a fluke or if maybe I should go into porn or something.) Turns out, the more praise I got, the more I wanted to do it; wanted to improve upon my technique and style. And the harder I tried, the more he liked it...and it basically snowballed from there.
[Side note from the Slut in me...] Back in the day (we're talking like 10 years ago), I rarely gave up the opportunity to give a guy head. Didn't matter how well I knew him, didn't matter whether or not I liked him, didn't matter whether or not I was going to get anything in return. I had a skill, dammit, and I wanted to show it off at every possible opportunity.
Giving head became a mixture of liking the praise I got and truly enjoying it for my own pleasure. More than a couple times, I've actually had orgasms JUST FROM SUCKING DICK. Not touching myself, not grinding on anything, not being touched...but solely from having a rock hard dick in my mouth and knowing that I'm getting a guy off. That has GOT to be one of the biggest turn-ons in the world for me - getting someone off. (And that's definitely not limited to men.)
When I was dating women, there was a stretch of a few years that I went without dick. What I find most ironic about that time period is that I didn't really miss intercourse so much...but I craved sucking cock like a fat kid craves cake. It surprises me to this day that I remained faithful during that time.
I love giving head to this day. I'm thankful to have a man that likes head. I've heard of some who don't, and I don't even know what to think about them, except to be grateful I haven't dated any.
I love how a dick feels in my mouth. I love to start with it completely flaccid, and work it up to that rock hard, practically bursting out of it's own skin status. I love the tiny noises a man makes - the sighs, the moans...pure music to my ears. And I love to swallow. It's not that I love the taste of cum all that much, (though as I'm saying that, I have an exception to the rule - Vin's cum is the sweetest I've ever tasted, and that's no fucking lie) but I like to finish what I've started. I can't think of a better way to finish a blow job than to have a guy's cum sliding down my throat. Like I always say, if you're gonna do something, do it right.
And remember...the more you like it, the more HE will.
Kisses.
posted by AmyVegas at
5/14/2004 07:28:00 AM
